I think it's when someone misjudges you, without knowing your real situation.
and it'll be most-most-most hurting if "the one" is your besties. or at least your close friend, or at least he/she WAS your close friend--who for longtime you guys never had anymore conversations--.
When i look like "everything is alright" from the outside, and keep living as "sanguinis" as usual.... THAT REALLY DOESN'T MEAN EVERYTHING GOING SO WELL FOR ME *cry*
lately, even ME started hating myself, my-annoying-self. not only you guys! even i realize it sooo well, recently my emotion keeps going up-and-down easily like rollercoaster. and so bad, i can't control it. and the WORST thing is : i can't tell them WHY i keep being like that (plus, they never asked me why -_-)
Will it be better if i tweet my whole problems, like those persons? (yeah, kind of person i ...... dislike..)
BUT I CAN'T!
frankly, i'm being more-more introvert by the day.
traumatic? hmm.. well... i don't know.
i'm no more easily put trust on people.
people WHO can't keep your PRECIOUS STORY (at least it's precious for you) safely :|